The Elegant Woman I'll
Like To Be
I dream of being invited to elegant parties, where I get to dress
up and meet really good, quality people.
I dream of having a Women's ministry, where I can serve women of
God and be an ambassador for my wonderful Lord and Saviour Jesus.
I dream to have my hair done in an elegant hairstyle ALWAYS, in
many different ways, up or down but being able to wear my hair elegant all the
time.
The elegant woman I'd like to be would have a strong core,
resulting in perfect posture all the time, when sleeping, eating,
walking, talking.
The elegant woman I'd like to be would have a routine of dance,
playing the piano, reading time and learning a language.
She prays all the time. In one or two sentences per prayer, she
'mutters under her breath' to the Lord.
The elegant woman I'd like to be would speak and write the most
perfect language and adopt two other languages.
I'll like to be able to be comfortable in various cultures and be
well travelled.
I would like a social circle of friends that I'm inspired by,
admire and have similar interests.
The elegant woman I'd like to be would be an influence over
society and in her own world.
She would have an elegant home,
well-dressed and loved.
She would partake of food elegantly and never rush.
The elegant woman I'd like to be delights in memories and makes
effort to create them.
The elegant woman I'd like to be would be well read.
Her car would be clean and neat.
She would have a respectable job, changing lives, impacting
people.
She is an unconventional mother.
She has a strong set of admirable values.
She would never worry about money, or anything.
She is generous with others but thrifty with herself.
She is a giver.
She has a loving
relationship with her husband. She is the elegant
wife.
She has well behaved children who love her and respect her.
She has a good relationship with extended family.
She manages her life well, with peace, not with corporate
efficiency. She does not appear to be busy. She does not appear stressed.
The elegant woman I'd like to be has a pleasant, lovely
countenance. She does not have harsh expressions on her face (I heard it is
good for preventing wrinkles too!)
The elegant woman I'd like to be does not voice strong opinions,
such as 'hate' or 'I can't stand' or, 'I can't take it anymore!'. She is mild
and meek. She knows some opinions should be kept to herself.
The elegant woman I'd like to be is one who enjoys entertaining
elegantly. She throws the occasional dinner party and foots the bill!
The elegant woman I'd like to be never interrupts. She makes an
effort to listen to the conversation and perceive the real meaning. In negative
conversations, she chooses to see the need behind the fault.
The elegant woman I'd like to be is gentle in her speech. She does
not have two manners of speaking - one to outsiders and one to her family.
The elegant woman I'd like to be is one who does not have
excessive things, but a small collection of beautiful, amazing elegant clothes,
shoes, bags and jewelry.
The elegant woman I'd like to be is well dressed, appropriately
and elegantly. She wears a more casual elegant style at home, but never daggy
ones and wears good pyjamas to bed. She wears elegant dresses in the day and
elegant gowns for evening events.
The elegant woman I'd like to be does not seek publicity or press.
She remains humble in limelight. While she may rise to public profile, she is
careful to not come across pretensious and remain down to earth.
The elegant woman I'd like to be is not interested in fashion,
that does not mean she is out of date, she just is faithful to the classics
with the occasional trend thrown into the mix.
She takes care of her body by sleeping well and eating well.
She knows her food but does not bother to talk excitedly about
which restaurant has the best whatever. She appreciates every opportunity to
dine well.
She aims to make people around her comfortable and happy.
She is thoughtful.
She finds routines peaceful.
She does not fuss nor get embarrassed.
She does not talk too much.
She does not tell what is not hers to tell.
She does not asks inappropriate questions.
She is calm and composed all the time.
She delights in beauty. She takes time to create beauty all around
her.
She is positive, believes the best in herself and others. She does
not give in to guilt, negativity and shuts off having bad thoughts about
others.
If someone is rude, she'll just be annoyed for just a second but
be quick to dispel it. She understands the importance of focusing on happy
things, what makes her happy, thus she always has a spirit of gratitude.
She is epitome of elegance and good taste.
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